I am going to ramble a bit about My GBF. Apologies ahead. :D
I am lucky to have GBF, a real GBF not some guy who secretly in love with me. NO. But I do love them so much. Family love.
Let me talk about my experience based on this article :Why Every Girl Needs A Guy Best Friend
1. He knows you're not a mind reader
I'm not sure about this one, but it's true that I never have to worry about breaking girl code. Like If I do something wrong towards them, they will tell me and not be sulky about it and expect me to know everything. I cannot read your mind every time boys.
2. No drunk crying
TBH, I've never been into this situation before but know that they really take good care of me when I am pre-drunk.
3. Spend less money
Because I'm not their girlfriend so when we go to the mall or tamu together, we just buy what we want and leave. But we do window shopping a bit. Buy drinks and leave.
4. You'll always have a date
I've never go to a wedding with my GBF, probably in the future I will. Since everyone around us know pretty much about our relationship, they wouldn't go and say "when will you guys get married?".
5. He won't mess up your cycle
So true! :D :D
6. No unnecessary conversations
When we want to go out, simple text messages would be enough. Like "Jum keluar", "Bah ok", "Pukul 5 saya ambil", "orite". No "Kau pakai baju merah? sebab saya pakai baju merah" that kind of stuff.
7. The best gossip
Yes! You say girls like to gossip? Guys are just the same. I got many gossips from my GBF. But of course I am tight lipped person. Eventually I forgot all about it. Heck I don't even remember any of it now.
8. Calories don't matter
I eat like a pig in front of them. No one cares. And when I don't finish my food they can always finish it for me. Food not wasted. Problem solved!
9. Honest advice
They always give advises like a parent would be, but in a more friend kind of way. They will just pour out their mind. And I'll end up agreeing with almost all their advises, because clearly they are way more mature than me sometimes.
Additional
10. Borrowed "boyfriend"
When you want to show other people that you are not single, you can always borrow them. Heck, you can also borrow them to piss off your ex boyfriend. True story. *Provided their girlfriend is not around. But if their girlfriend is cool, then its cool. :D
10. Cursing is just one way of showing affection
I curse a lot. Like A LOT. I think I'm the reason they start cursing too. My bad. My girlfriend and I love cursing but we only use it when we are together. No chance I'm using it at home now wouldn't I. I'll try to limit it since I am older now (and wiser).
11. Shoulder to lean on
Literally means shoulder to lean on. Like when we are in a car and I am tired, I can always lean on their shoulder and sleep. And I'll make sure no saliva on their shoulder. eww. But of course, they are a good listener and will always support me.
lots of love
I am lucky to have GBF, a real GBF not some guy who secretly in love with me. NO. But I do love them so much. Family love.
Let me talk about my experience based on this article :Why Every Girl Needs A Guy Best Friend
1. He knows you're not a mind reader
I'm not sure about this one, but it's true that I never have to worry about breaking girl code. Like If I do something wrong towards them, they will tell me and not be sulky about it and expect me to know everything. I cannot read your mind every time boys.
2. No drunk crying
TBH, I've never been into this situation before but know that they really take good care of me when I am pre-drunk.
3. Spend less money
Because I'm not their girlfriend so when we go to the mall or tamu together, we just buy what we want and leave. But we do window shopping a bit. Buy drinks and leave.
4. You'll always have a date
I've never go to a wedding with my GBF, probably in the future I will. Since everyone around us know pretty much about our relationship, they wouldn't go and say "when will you guys get married?".
5. He won't mess up your cycle
So true! :D :D
6. No unnecessary conversations
When we want to go out, simple text messages would be enough. Like "Jum keluar", "Bah ok", "Pukul 5 saya ambil", "orite". No "Kau pakai baju merah? sebab saya pakai baju merah" that kind of stuff.
7. The best gossip
Yes! You say girls like to gossip? Guys are just the same. I got many gossips from my GBF. But of course I am tight lipped person. Eventually I forgot all about it. Heck I don't even remember any of it now.
8. Calories don't matter
I eat like a pig in front of them. No one cares. And when I don't finish my food they can always finish it for me. Food not wasted. Problem solved!
9. Honest advice
They always give advises like a parent would be, but in a more friend kind of way. They will just pour out their mind. And I'll end up agreeing with almost all their advises, because clearly they are way more mature than me sometimes.
Additional
10. Borrowed "boyfriend"
When you want to show other people that you are not single, you can always borrow them. Heck, you can also borrow them to piss off your ex boyfriend. True story. *Provided their girlfriend is not around. But if their girlfriend is cool, then its cool. :D
10. Cursing is just one way of showing affection
I curse a lot. Like A LOT. I think I'm the reason they start cursing too. My bad. My girlfriend and I love cursing but we only use it when we are together. No chance I'm using it at home now wouldn't I. I'll try to limit it since I am older now (and wiser).
11. Shoulder to lean on
Literally means shoulder to lean on. Like when we are in a car and I am tired, I can always lean on their shoulder and sleep. And I'll make sure no saliva on their shoulder. eww. But of course, they are a good listener and will always support me.
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| 2011. Because u guys are always there for me. (And all 5sc1 guys are my bestfriends too, haha) |
~Taya'14~xoxo
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